8 Things to Consider Regarding End of Life Pain Management


8 Things to Consider Regarding End of Life Pain Management

There is so much confusion and fear regarding end of life pain medicines, morphine in particular, that I am addressing what I consider major issues. I have made the list simple, short, and to the point so that you can use this as a guideline when your loved one is receiving a narcotic.

* To be effective, pain medicine needs to be given on a regular, around the clock, schedule.

* Over time the original dosage may have to be increased.

* Everyone’s pain is different so everyone’s pain medicine and amount will be different.

* There is no standardized medicine dosage for pain. It takes time to find the correct pain medicine and the correct amount.

* The biggest fears about taking narcotics for pain management is fear of addiction and overdosing.

* Most medicines given by mouth can be given rectally. Some pain medicines can be made into creams and rubbed on the skin.

* Generally there isn’t a need for needles in end of life pain management.

* Pain doesn’t stop when a person is non-responsive. Continue the pain management schedule until death.

I am adding an additional caveat to the above knowledge: Dying is not painful. Disease causes pain. If pain has not been an issue during the disease process then just because a person is actively dying does not mean they are in pain. If pain has been an issue during the disease process that pain is present to the last breath.

Often dying looks painful to the people watching. Dying is a struggle to get out of the body. There are sounds that ordinarily would indicate discomfort but, when a person is actively dying, are part of the struggle. Just as the little chick works to get out of its shell, a person works to get out of their body. It takes effort to release from our body. That includes rattling and gasping sounds, twitching, random hand and leg movements, picking the air, facial grimaces, and talking that doesn’t make sense. All of this is part of the natural struggle to get out of the body. Nothing bad is happening, nothing pathological. This is how people and other animals die.

What I have described in the paragraph above is generally interpreted as an expression of pain unless someone tells the watchers differently. That is where knowledge of end of life and the dying process comes in, that is where health care professionals can give important guidance IF they, themselves, understand the normal natural way people die. Sadly to say, all too often, even health care professionals do not know.

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To educate families who have a loved one in the dying process, I encourage the palliative care team and the hospice team to give them Gone From My Sight (the hospice Blue Book) and show them the 25 minute film NEW RULES for End of Life Care.  To educate the palliative care and hospice team (social workers, chaplains, nurses and volunteers) I encourage agencies to watch THIS IS HOW PEOPLE DIE.  Both films check the boxes for continuous care of families and agencies with medicare and raise CAHPS scores.


4 Responses

  1. Reading both you guys loud and clear. Thousands of us are.

    “But not yet” ( I’m sure you’ve seen the film, it’s relevant)

    You’re too valuable on these pages, to us and among us.
    But there will be a time – I’m afraid.

  2. I had to watch my beloved mother die in unspeakable agony; there was absolutely no question she was DYING from leukemia, & fairly soon, but they refused to give her anything but children’s liquid tylenol even after she was unable to swallow anything. This was in 1997, when the first hysteria over oxycontin was spinning around. I lost a good part of my sanity watching her agony –leukemia bone pain is said to be excruciating, & her moans/screams sure backed that up. I couldn’t then, & still can’t, figure out how her monstrous torment did anything at all to slow down or “save” even ONE recreational drug user from using drugs recreationally.

    Knowing that uncounted thousands –millions– are being forced to die in agony in addition to the millions that are LIVING in agony merely for being chronic pain sufferers is destroying the remaining shreds of my sanity in an absolutely fulminating rage.

    • I may end up in jail but I have a stun gun that is rated as giving 90% of a lethal jolt… they don’t die… just wish that they could…. it is nothing personal … just level the playing field and dishing out some JUSTICE 🙂

    • While this does not surprise me, it disgusts me. I hope those scumbags who forced your mom to suffer like that meets up with karma one day. I’m so sorry your mom had to suffer so needlessly and you had to watch her suffer like that.

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